It’s time to get whelmed instead.
Your plate is full, right?
You’ve been at this for a while.
Life is your kind of kuh-raz-eee.
And then it gets fuller, and the time has come, or there’s a curve-ball, and things get well n’ truly wild.
And you could say, because it’s your right to, that you’re feeling “overwhelmed”. But don’t. Don’t go there. Stay with me, on the light side of change and bursting creativity; on the front end of pressure, and greatness, and the best and worst kinds of challenges.
Back away from overwhelm. Because when you just utter that word, you cast doubt on your capacity to rise. You let angst flop on your couch. You fret that you might not have the resources to surmount obstacles or to seal the deal on your dream.
Let’s make a pact. If you slip and use the o-word, I’ll refuse to believe you. I’m going to act like you didn’t even say it, and I’m going to remind you that
: you put everything on your plate with intention, and you have a huge say in creating your reality.
: you’ve been watering your dreams for years and you’re going to get what you ask for and allow (ya!)
: tragic circumstances or a circus of success — you’ve got what it takes to meet life with more giving.
Ban “overwhelmed” from your vocabulary. Refuse it entry to your psyche. You’re bigger than that.
Just be, you know, whelmed (this is best said with a Jewish, Brooklyn accent.)
Whelmed. Not at full capacity, rather, full of capacity.
Whelmed. Sounds full of potential, doesn’t it?
Editor’s Note: Danielle LaPorte is the creator of WhiteHotTruth.com, which has been called “the best place on-line for kick-ass spirituality.” She is the author of The Fire Starter Sessions: A Digital Experience for Entrepreneurs, an inspirational speaker, former think tank exec, and news show commentator. You can read all of Danielle’s EcoSalon guest articles here, and find her on Twitter @daniellelaporte.