As to the double standard I have this to say “a key that opens a ton of locks is a master key; a lock that can be opened by a ton of keys is a shitty lock.” This is the mentality toward sex. Also girls try to have it both ways, they want to have sex but still give it enough importance that being found out is shameful… I live my life by the simple idea that if you have to hide it you shouldn’t do it. Perhaps others should consider this as well.