How Do You Want It All To Feel? Sensuous Goal Refinement + Emotional Magnetizing

Because your feelings need to be limber.

Feelings are magnetic. So it goes that if you generate certain feelings – and you have the power to create any feeling you desire – then you increase the power of your emotional magnetism. But we need to limber up, loosen the images and adjectives encrusted on our goals and most-desired states. It helps to get poetic, lyrical, and abstract. Go there with me.

I want my day to feel like jazz.

I want kissing to feel like eating an orange off the tree from Tuscany.

I want my next success to feel like Adele must feel with her latest album.

I want my body to feel like a Jaguar in a new open field.

I want smiling to feel like mangoes.

I want my friendships to feel like sandalwood oil, and bowls of popcorn, and hand-knit, with Vodka mixers, served up in a red tent.

I want my nervous system to feel like The Buddha must have felt when he discovered The Middle Way.

I want my gigs to feel like Jimmy Page playing Kashmir, and Gaga doing a Born This Way finale, with some Leonard Cohen tenderness.

I want my neighborhood to feel like a new Jason Mraz song.

I want my integrity to feel like the Hope Diamond.

I want my money-making to feel like walking though a vineyard, surveying ripeness, a production of sun and earth for craft and pleasure.

I want my word to feel like gold bullion.

I want my laughter to feel like electric pineapple children.

I want the end of the day to feel like a happy quiet baby.

I want being of service to feel like a Squaw mixing herbs into healing paste for warriors.

I want my philanthropy to feel like a cosmic Queen on her best day.

I want my challenges to feel how Siddhartha felt when the left the kingdom.

I want my love to feel like a gorgeous secret that only he and I know. For eternity.

I want my writing to feel like Citrine, and Jack Kerouac with a fresh buzz on.

I want my ideas to feel like sunrise.

Editor’s Note: Danielle LaPorte is the creator of, which has been called “the best place on-line for kick-ass spirituality.” She is the author of The Fire Starter Sessions: A Digital Experience for Entrepreneurs, an inspirational speaker, former think tank exec, and news show commentator. You can read all of Danielle’s EcoSalon guest articles here, and find her on Twitter @daniellelaporte.

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